Having a composed and relaxed temperament at all times is
not an easy job, particularly in our times when we do not have any patience to
deal with unexpected incidences. I don't claim that my dad is the best person
in the world, but he means the world to me. I have seen him dealing with
several instances in life that can make anyone wonder from does he bring so
much of strength and patience.
I become particularly picky when I have to travel to any
place in the world. The anxiety of leaving something behind takes me over, and
it becomes difficult for me to hide my frustration and irritation with things.
At the age of twenty-three, I behave like a 10-year old kid in front of my
parents, and it is my father who calms me down. Last month, we were planning a
road trip to Coorg, and my father suggested to take a Car Rental in Bangalore without Driver so that we can experience a
new car this time. Although I was not against the idea, my dad sensed it that I
was not in favor either. I always preferred taking a driver along with us so
that none of us gets tired driving the car. Anyway, he was adamant this time,
and it was my duty to take the delivery of the car from a particular pickup
point.
When we were about to leave at seven in the morning, we got
a call from the car rental company that the driver who was supposed to deliver
the vehicle was stuck somewhere and it will take some time to send the car to
us. So the trip had not even begun, and we had started arguing at home. As
usual, I started blaming others that it was their idea to Rent Cars in Bangalore and now we were stuck at home. We could not
even take the chauffeur-driven car because we had already paid for the
Self-Drive Car. Nevertheless, my dad was calm and unruffled as usual. He made
me sit, handed over a glass of water to me, and asked me to show the itinerary.
He justified the company’s act that they are also humans working for a company
and they are allowed to make mistakes. We just sat there for a few minutes
talking about random things and then he remade our itinerary according to the
delay in departure.
He has a habit of not making a fuss out of simple problems.
When people like me lose our temper, he magically maintains his cool. He would
either keep a poker face or even laugh at the situation. God knows where he
draws his strength from, but he is amazing at handling life. Otherwise being
very loving by nature, my mother is a little high tempered by nature (I guess
this is where my temperament comes from). I feel amazed to notice that my
father has hardly ever got angry with her. Whether it was the matter of Self-Drive Car Rental Bangalore or
several other silly incidents in their twenty-five years of married life, he
has managed to handle their married life really well.
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