I cannot ignore the fact that I am a passionate traveler,
who by the fate of time, is a parent as well. I have to keep in mind my kid’s
holidays so that I do not disturb their studies for my travel plans. However, I
have developed my schedules in a way that my personal ambitions do not poke
into my professional life as well.
Maximize the family
time
My parents live in Pune, while I live with my family in
Mumbai. They keep visiting us almost every month for a weekend or so, and we
also go there. However, whenever I have a travel plan coming up, but the kids
are busy with school, I call my parents to live at my home. They babysit both
my babies and I am off to a new honeymoon with my husband. We cherish the
personal time we get with each other, regardless the point that we both miss
the kids as well.
On the positive side, the children get time to spend with
their grandparents. Thank God, they gel up well with each other. My mom is an
energetic person and she takes care of the tot’s tantrums, up to a limit of
course. If the children behave too badly, she is the one to teach them a lesson
as well. All in all, I am happy that we all are a big Indian family, who live
their individual lives along with the family life.
Traveling with kids
Even when the babies get one holiday from their school, or
if there is a long weekend, we set off to an offbeat destination. I hate the
clichéd cities and hill stations in India because they become immensely crowded
during holidays. That is why; I have to prepare the list of places we can visit
during such holidays because I cannot waste time in planning whenever there is
a holiday looming over.
Last year, we hired Self Drive Car Rental Mumbai to go to Mahableshwar when the kids were not
heavily burdened with work at school. They could afford to miss a few classes
and I promised their teachers to get them back on track once we returned from
vacations. The place was not very crowded, thankfully, and we had a great
weekend.
There is one thing that I have noticed when the kids are at
home and we are traveling; they are becoming independent individuals. The
younger one is only four years old at present, and he knows where to put his
laundry. He sits quietly while eating food, and does not need TV to finish off
the stuff on his plate. Thanks to my parents who inculcated this positive habit
in him, which I could not do.
My older son is ten years old, and he already knows how to
google anything whenever we make travel plans. He finds out the best places to
visit, the hotel deals, and many other things. I am amazed for sure how these
kids are growing up so well! Thanks to their traveler parents and cooperative
grandparents that they are able to become responsible beings.
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