Thursday 23 November 2017

How I Found a New Meaning to My Life in Delhi



It was a late Saturday afternoon when I was getting frustrated sitting at home, which was incidentally a hostel in Delhi. The bachelor life in hostels and paying guest accommodations is considered very happening. People think that you can party all day long, or all through the year and never get bored or tired of it. However, at least for me, the truth is that I got frustrated with this lifestyle only after a couple of years. It was not because I could not afford to go for high-end parties or I never liked them. It was fun in the beginning, but somehow I started getting bored of it. Or you can say that I would realize the shallowness of friendships every time I would attend a birthday party or dance with someone I barely knew. 

Thankfully for me, it did not take too long to come out of the bighead social life. After a Friday in September, my head was taking rounds on the Saturday mornings because of the heavy alcoholic drinks I had drunk. I, being a male of the Indian society, hardly listen to someone who stops me from drinking too much. Moreover, people also do not care how many drinks I order. After all, it's my money, my life, and I have the advantage of living in a rented flat, alone! I was leading a lavish life until this lucky day when I wanted to quit every single particle of this extravagant existence.
Just when I thought of having a more meaningful living, I pondered upon what I needed to do. I had to stop meeting people who forced me to join them everywhere I did not want to go. I pledged to maintain a decent social relationship with unwanted friends and go back to find people who understood my frame of mind. There were a couple of old-school buddies, meeting whom I thought would be a great idea to re-align my life.  

Since it was too late in the afternoon to call someone, I thought of spending the day by myself. I wished to go for a drive, which I would always do earlier in other's cars. For all the time, I felt that I need people in my life for several reasons, one of which was hanging around late at nights in a car. However, as soon as I resolved to be on my own, I discovered that I do not need to depend for anything on anyone. I thought of hiring a cab, but then I got a better idea. I just browsed for Car Rental Delhi and hired a car that would arrive in four hours. Until then, I had a lot to do at home. I spent the entire waiting time with myself, cleaned the cupboards, arranged things for my future studies, and called a few buddies.

As soon as I received my car, I hopped into the driver's seat and left for a long drive. After driving around on the roads of national capital for more than two hours, I called my girlfriend and picked her up from her home. We talked and had a good time enjoying the ride in the Honda car; I felt apologetic to her for not being with her for such a long time. I felt grateful all over again that I have someone like her in life who can forgive me for every nasty thing I do and then guide me to be on the right track once more. We would never forget the night we spent driving here and there without any purpose, but I can still say that the ride gave a new meaning to my life.

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